How should I go about this?

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So, I'm thinking now that I'm turning 18, it may be time to come clean wit my Mom that I smoke the reefer. It's more of a guilty conscience type of thing for me I suppose.

Being that she still looks at weed like it's fucking heroin, how should I tell her? Have y'all ever had this talk? How did it go?

Inb4 pussy ass Mama's boy.

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It'd just be a lot more convenient too. Not having to hide everything, waiting 'til she goes to bed to smoke, etc.

Like she asked why I was broke and I had to make up some bullshit that I stashed some of the money for Christmas gifts. :-|

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But then again idk, I feel like her opinion has changed ever since she's seen it getting more and more legalized. Like I was talking to her one day and was like "Why do you still look at weed like the devil? You even see on the news all the medical benefits." And she said "Yea I know. I guess, like if it was you, my main concern is that it's still illegal and I don't want you getting in trouble wit the law.".

So I'm not sure. She did admit at one point that it's better for me than cigarettes when I was still smoking em. :-??

MetalCoresades

Just be honest with her. Straight up say "serious conversation, I ride the magic dragon from time to time, and I want to be honest with you about it instead of you finding out about it later".

OPP

dude I just say don't tell. I get the conscious thing but I admitted it to mine and got incredibly fucked. my parents are far too conservative to give it second thought and if your mom sees it the way they do, which it sounds, its just gonna end in you getting screwed. I mean idk that for certain but I wouldn't be surprised.

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Nah what I was telling Wake when he was threatening to snitch wasn't a bluff, that was all real. I wouldn't personally be in any real shit, I only hide it for her protection. It has the potential to shoot her straight in the heart when and if she knows.

NolaFree810

My mom caught me when I was like fukkin 23 and she flipped lol she was cryin and all this shit it was redic
But then over the past couple years she's gotten used to it and its nbd.. It just takes time.. I would not tell her but educate her on it more then break it out once she has gotten better info

Rex_Capone420

I smoked with my dad when I was 16....just smoked a bowl with him now

FLAT

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NolaFree810

Some of us aren't white trash doe :-??

OPP

also highly consider that since you're turning 18 she could easily just say okay get the hell out of my house now. And it would be legally fine.

Rex_Capone420

Ky how is that white trash? He knew I smoked...he knew not smoking with me wouldn't change anything....in sorry your parents are lame

NolaFree810

Smokin with your 16 yr old is such a wt thing to do sorry..
Now if you were 25 then it's different

mrAPE

I wouldn't say anything. Its more of a respect thing to me. If she doesn't like weed at all have the respect to not tell her or do it around her.

Heisenberg

I toke wif both mah parents :-??

Rex_Capone420

Shouldn't you be at the tanning salon Nola?

Gazorpazorpfield

My mom caught me. I'm sure she doesn't want me to and for all I know she probably believes I don't anymore because if she did she'd flip out constantly.

NolaFree810

Rex420 said:

Shouldn't you be at the tanning salon Nola?

Sun tan

Rex_Capone420

Potheads for life >-

FLAT

Rex420 said:

Shouldn't you be at the tanning salon Nola?

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SATAN

I smoked with 2 of my friends parents before I smoked with mine. I was politely silent and discreet about puffing for a couple of years before it was open but they knew. My dad hadn't chiefed in several years. One night he got in a fight with one of his crew at work and management took the other dudes side and fined him. He came up to my room and rolled the 2 best joints I've ever seen and burned down all night. I was like 18. I guess my point is that I think it's good to wait until you think *she's* ready to have the talk.