I went to 4 out of 15 shows solo this year.. I have bad anxiety problems too and they only bother me before the show starts. Since they were all pretty small shows, I usually just talked to one of the band members for a period of time and then wandered around.
For some reason I get really nervous before shows. For some reason I feel like someone's going to try to start crap with me but the environment, while not the most welcome, isn't dangerous per se
For some reason I get really nervous before shows. For some reason I feel like someone's going to try to start crap with me but the environment, while not the most welcome, isn't dangerous per se
I've got worse things to worry about. Like men and slippery hands. For example, while I was at Carcass some guy thought it'd be cool to feel up my legs n get a little too close. Like fuck that shit. Tends to happen less when I'm with a fairly big guy but that doesn't always stop assholes.
For some reason I get really nervous before shows. For some reason I feel like someone's going to try to start crap with me but the environment, while not the most welcome, isn't dangerous per se
I've got worse things to worry about. Like men and slippery hands. For example, while I was at Carcass some guy thought it'd be cool to feel up my legs n get a little too close. Like fuck that shit. Tends to happen less when I'm with a fairly big guy but that doesn't always stop assholes.
Now that's not fun. I've only seen stuff like that at a few shows I've been to but that's mostly because those were shows I wasn't on the rail for. On the rail, it seems to be mostly real fans going for the bands and not going to drink
These people weren't drunk when that shit happened. Drunks tend to be more sloppy though and don't really hesitate to be extra ew. This is why I like whoever I've gone with to stay close to me. You wanna go in the pit? That's fine but gtf back to me as soon as you can. I have anxiety issues too so that fucks me up as well
For some reason I get really nervous before shows. For some reason I feel like someone's going to try to start crap with me but the environment, while not the most welcome, isn't dangerous per se
I've got worse things to worry about. Like men and slippery hands. For example, while I was at Carcass some guy thought it'd be cool to feel up my legs n get a little too close. Like fuck that shit. Tends to happen less when I'm with a fairly big guy but that doesn't always stop assholes.
I'm glad that's never happened to me, and fingers crossed it never does. ><
I have a feeling I don't get felt up or grabbed or whatever is because I look underage. Everyone I always meet at concerts think I'm around 15 or 16. :-))
Surprisingly I was on the other end, and it was a drunk unattractive whore getting off to Motley Crue while wrapping her arms around an feeling up the entire front row lol. It was like rape and move on, rape and move on. She kept going "I need to get..uhhhhhh..closer to Nikki, ahhhhhhh"
It was kind of funny at the time, the guy next to me kept making all these funny jokes that she was just too fucked up to understand. "Ma'am, I'm afraid that I can almost feel the STD's attacking me. Words can now describe how bad I want you to get the fuck away from me." *looks over to the next guy* "Is it possible to smell herpes?"
I have a feeling I don't get felt up or grabbed or whatever is because I look underage. Everyone I always meet at concerts think I'm around 15 or 16. :-))
I'm 17...and I don't think I look that much older...and it doesn't stop anyone for me.
I have a feeling I don't get felt up or grabbed or whatever is because I look underage. Everyone I always meet at concerts think I'm around 15 or 16. :-))
I'm 17...and I don't think I look that much older...and it doesn't stop anyone for me.
Yeah, it doesn't stop most guys. And I look pretty much the same way I did at 12 so...
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but i do have the "ok" to go.