I will always disagree with this statement as long as someone who is a part of a couple, or just got out of a relationship tells me this.
I just ended a relationship, because I honestly feel they are. Extremely. If you're not ready to settle down, what's the point of being with somebody?
This. If you aren't ready to settle down then why be in a relationship because tbh...isn't that the whole point? And what really sucks is when you find that person you want to settle down with, and the other person isn't ready for that
I am not ready to settle down, but I sure don't want or need one night stands, that would honestly make me more depressed. I am in that situation where I really like this girl, and she is absolutely not interested in me.
Then move the fuck on, honestly. You can't just go out looking for a girlfriend. Just find some girls, take them out on dates. Chill with them. Just be friends. And if something happens, it happens. But you can't rush things.
Rushing things is never good, and neither is just settling for someone. I did that once because the person I was in love with and wanted to be with I couldn't or ever again be with them. It was nice, I had control of everything and we did something everyday. But I didn't love him and I just stayed with him for 6 years because at least I was making someone happy. But that's not the way to do things in a relationship or to make one healthy. You need to make YOU happy and stop looking for a girl
I dunno, I've known Shane for almost 6 years. Of course we had our ups and downs but the feeling of having someone to fall back on when everyone else turns their backs is something I wouldn't change. Me and him have seen our friends come and go but the drama friends bring just makes us wonder if friends are worth it.
people saying relationships aren't worth it are just wrong <_>
it's just not worth trying find a relationship. I've never pursued trying to find a boyfriend or get one, they've all kind of just happened. just live your life and be happy with yourself, Primus, and eventually someone will come along who will be happy with you too. if you're not happy with yourself, you can't expect someone else to be happy with you.
i agree. looking hard for a gf/bf is setting yourself up for disappointment. be patient, the best things in life find you
people saying relationships aren't worth it are just wrong <_>
it's just not worth trying find a relationship. I've never pursued trying to find a boyfriend or get one, they've all kind of just happened. just live your life and be happy with yourself, Primus, and eventually someone will come along who will be happy with you too. if you're not happy with yourself, you can't expect someone else to be happy with you.
i agree. looking hard for a gf/bf is setting yourself up for disappointment. be patient, the best things in life find you
people saying relationships aren't worth it are just wrong <_>
it's just not worth trying find a relationship. I've never pursued trying to find a boyfriend or get one, they've all kind of just happened. just live your life and be happy with yourself, Primus, and eventually someone will come along who will be happy with you too. if you're not happy with yourself, you can't expect someone else to be happy with you.
LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN!
You have to love yourself and be confident in yourself. And you have to let relationships just happen. If you go looking for them they are guaranteed to fail.
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6 years later my one night stand is now my wife
You have to love yourself and be confident in yourself. And you have to let relationships just happen. If you go looking for them they are guaranteed to fail.