Wake, has your wife cheated on you? You dont have to answer, I've just never heard someone say "yeah, if my significant other cheated, i'd forgive them" However if youve been through that experience and found it in your heart to forgive her i'd obviously understand your position on the matter.
Missed this comment yesterday-
As far as I know, no my wife hasnt cheated. I'm not sure how I would really feel in that situation, and is really difficult to know exactly what I would do. I few years ago I did catch my wife talking though email with her exbf. They werent pleasant emails for me to read, and really shook my life. I honestly couldnt believe she would have said the stuff she said, and I couldnt believe this dude who was getting married a month later was returning the discussion. It was cheating emotionally, 100%. We talked about it and I forgave her. I'm not sure I would have been able to really forgive if she had gone though with their email talks.
But I do realize that I had a choice. You either forgive and figure out a way to make the relationship stronger, or you move on with your life.
I've never cheated on my wife. There has been times when I had flirty conversations with other girls online, but I never considered taking it anywhere serious.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
then why even say anything at all? Im not a mind reader and your being all cryptic. Im pretty much an open book, when someone asks me questions. If I dont respond it's because I didnt see it. So if you want to say something then say it. I dont give a fuck.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
okay... I kinda see what you were saying. 8-} Basically you were fucking with me saying that if I had that opinion I must have been cheated on. man... I really had to reach for that one. )
But yeah- it's true. If you really love someone and they cheat, you have two options 1. forgive, work on a plan to regain trust, and stay with the person you love 2. Cut your losses and move on, being without the person you love
Which is worse? Im just not convinced that #2 is always a better option then #1. Maybe it is. really the only person who knows for sure is the person in it. Either option sucks no doubt.
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As far as I know, no my wife hasnt cheated. I'm not sure how I would really feel in that situation, and is really difficult to know exactly what I would do. I few years ago I did catch my wife talking though email with her exbf. They werent pleasant emails for me to read, and really shook my life. I honestly couldnt believe she would have said the stuff she said, and I couldnt believe this dude who was getting married a month later was returning the discussion. It was cheating emotionally, 100%. We talked about it and I forgave her. I'm not sure I would have been able to really forgive if she had gone though with their email talks.
But I do realize that I had a choice. You either forgive and figure out a way to make the relationship stronger, or you move on with your life.
I've never cheated on my wife. There has been times when I had flirty conversations with other girls online, but I never considered taking it anywhere serious.
dude lay off the dope
But yeah- it's true. If you really love someone and they cheat, you have two options
1. forgive, work on a plan to regain trust, and stay with the person you love
2. Cut your losses and move on, being without the person you love
Which is worse? Im just not convinced that #2 is always a better option then #1. Maybe it is. really the only person who knows for sure is the person in it. Either option sucks no doubt.