Invested so much into making this girl see that I like her only to receive nothing in return. Not only that but my best friend opened his big fat fucking mouth to the girl's best friend who told her about a few things that I entrusted him with about her and I, and now she doesn't want us to be talking for a while. God damn it makes me so fucking mad. The one girl that has ever shown me any sort of affection in all my life, is now on the verge of disposing of me.
there will be others man
I don't know man. She took away my virginity and it took me till I was 20 and that was only 9 days ago that I was 20. It also took that long to even have a girl show interest. I've always been the guy who shows interest but never receives it in return. She was literally my first everything. And thanks to my friend he robbed that from me. Which I still have no idea why,
a lot of times you gotta just not care so much and be you and you'll bump into the right girl. I'm not saying hide in your room til she knocks on the door but don't excessively put yourself out there for a girl
I understand man, I really do and it's not like I'm that desperate or anything I don't try to get with every girl. It's the ones that I have who I find to be the perfect ones for me don't feel the same way at all about me. I know I just have to only look out for myself now, but I just really missed what I had. It felt nice having that sort of affection. I never felt it before.
hey man look at it this way....at least you got it in....it sucks now and that is super shitty of your friend....but you will be able to move one and one day will look back on it and be like yeah at least i got it in....just try and distract yourself by getting out of the house and doing something fun
a lot of times you gotta just not care so much and be you and you'll bump into the right girl. I'm not saying hide in your room til she knocks on the door but don't excessively put yourself out there for a girl
I understand man, I really do and it's not like I'm that desperate or anything I don't try to get with every girl. It's the ones that I have who I find to be the perfect ones for me don't feel the same way at all about me. I know I just have to only look out for myself now, but I just really missed what I had. It felt nice having that sort of affection. I never felt it before.
The right girl and the right friends will come around soon enough. As far as trusting people, just limit the kind of information you trust anyone with. I know sometimes you feel like you just really want to tell somebody but just remind yourself of the possible outcomes if that person goes and tells other people.
I've realized that now, and it really hurts that he betrayed me like this. The fucked up thing is the girl's best friend is my best friend's sister (small world) and what I'm assuming happened is he got really drunk and drunk dialed his sister, who then told her everything. Fucking A.
hey man look at it this way....at least you got it in....it sucks now and that is super shitty of your friend....but you will be able to move one and one day will look back on it and be like yeah at least i got it in....just try and distract yourself by getting out of the house and doing something fun
a lot of times you gotta just not care so much and be you and you'll bump into the right girl. I'm not saying hide in your room til she knocks on the door but don't excessively put yourself out there for a girl
I understand man, I really do and it's not like I'm that desperate or anything I don't try to get with every girl. It's the ones that I have who I find to be the perfect ones for me don't feel the same way at all about me. I know I just have to only look out for myself now, but I just really missed what I had. It felt nice having that sort of affection. I never felt it before.
think of relationships as learning experiences. you learn what works and doesn't work as time goes on. after the first real relationship you will start to build more confidence
I know. It's not like I was insecure or not confident. It's just that I came into her life at a very complicated time and this whole situation has been confusing, I just tried so hard to fight for it. I'm just going to either let her come back to me, and not look for anyone. As for my friend I don't know how I'm going to deal with it.
It seems like the end of the world but it's not sir. In a bit you'll get over the thoughts of her and now that you have got laid its much easier to make it happen again. My wife was my first but we split up for three months and I was able to get it in like nothing where before it had seemed like an impossible task. Also just because things seem like shit between you two now doesn't mean it will stay that way. Whenever someone I know goes through a breakup I say, look if its meant to be it will work out in the end.
You tryin to be a hero fool? You wanna see badass mother fucker?! I'll show ya a badass!!!
It seems like the end of the world but it's not sir. In a bit you'll get over the thoughts of her and now that you have got laid its much easier to make it happen again. My wife was my first but we split up for three months and I was able to get it in like nothing where before it had seemed like an impossible task. Also just because things seem like shit between you two now doesn't mean it will stay that way. Whenever someone I know goes through a breakup I say, look if its meant to be it will work out in the end.
I honestly don't know if it'll necessarily get easier to get laid for me, I think I just got lucky because she found me attractive (which is a first), I don't really have much of a charm about me to where girls flock over to me. Basically what I experienced was real compassion, we were making love, not a one night stand with no attachments involved. That I still have no experience with.
muffinz, never say making love if you want to ever get laid again lol
I can't help it dude. It wasn't just straight up fucking, it was passionate. Sure it sounds corny, but she took away something special, and I know she felt the same way I did.
Tried to kick my door open because it was locked and i broke it
The fuck did you think would happen when kicking a door? The door would say "Ouch, that hurt, maybe I should unlock for him so he doesn't do that again...."
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