But why does it really matter tho? And its not even a "don't need no man" thing to me because I would offer to pay myself, but there was one time back when when she said she wanted to pay herself. I think the circumstance matters more than just "This is how it is". And believe me cause I don't even like people buying me anything for Christmas or birthdays, its just mildly uncomfortable for me to accept shit cause I feel like I have to earn everything I have. But regardless, I don't think there's a single way to do things.
I mean, I fully realize that this whole "traditionalist" BS is really just an excuse for him to make a claim for moral superiority when it doesn't work out. Notice how he can't give an honestly good reason as to why he subscribes to it other than "just what I believe".
Its just the way I was raised, and the way I think is right. Would I get pissed off or offended if she offered to pay? No, but I would never assume she would pay or ask her to pay. It should be expected that I would pay for everything.
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Men pay, hold the door open, ask for fathers blessing, meet the parents early, no sex till marriage kinda shit.
When it comes to relationships, 100%
Wouldn't it be a good gesture from either party?