I have sexual attraction. I find women attractive. I have high levels of anxiety, depression, low self esteem, and straight up phobia when it comes to pursuing relationships and sexual activity. That fear and discomfort makes me not want it.
That and I think sex complicates relationships, and Im not ready for that.
see dude I think that's asexual. if I'm not mistaken, asexual people want a relationship, but just don't crave the physical parts of it. you've even said you think sex is gross, you think bjs are disrespectful, you've never measured your dick, etc. you seem at most repulsed, and at least completely disinterested in sex. maybe ur asexual.
I dont really think Im repulsed. Just not ready for it, and scared and uncomfortable. It doesnt really disgust me anymore. Like in movies or games or TV or even porn it doesnt bother me. I really dont know what it is. But I wouldnt say Im asexual.
aight fa sho, just thought it might be worth looking into, but you know yourself better than some assholes on the internet, lol
I used to think I was. Or least enterained the idea of anti-sexuality, which was more a philosophical desire to be asexual which resulted in behavioral changes. But I dont know anymore.
Are you even able to "approach" females online at least and slide in the DMs?
No. I havent talked to a girl (like REALLY talked to a girl) since I stopped talking to Ms. McFuck. Whether in person or online.
How to successfully slide in the DMs 101. When I used to be shy wit females, I "practiced" by talking to them on the internet. I crashed and burned most of the time makin every rookie mistake. But once I started knockin it out the park online, I knew I had "it" and was able to translate it to real life.
In this example, this was the very first message I ever sent. And I know yall are bout to talk shit, so jus know 20 minutes later, plans were already made to chill this weekend. Shit is easy, jus be clever. "You're cute we should chill" Never works. This did cause it's memorable unlike the 1,000 "Heyyy cutie"s she's already heard.
Are you even able to "approach" females online at least and slide in the DMs?
No. I havent talked to a girl (like REALLY talked to a girl) since I stopped talking to Ms. McFuck. Whether in person or online.
How to successfully slide in the DMs 101. When I used to be shy wit females, I "practiced" by talking to them on the internet. I crashed and burned most of the time makin every rookie mistake. But once I started knockin it out the park online, I knew I had "it" and was able to translate it to real life.
In this example, this was the very first message I ever sent. And I know yall are bout to talk shit, so jus know 20 minutes later, plans were already made to chill this weekend. Shit is easy, jus be clever. "You're cute we should chill" Never works. This did cause it's memorable unlike the 1,000 "Heyyy cutie"s she's already heard.
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That and I think sex complicates relationships, and Im not ready for that.
In this example, this was the very first message I ever sent. And I know yall are bout to talk shit, so jus know 20 minutes later, plans were already made to chill this weekend. Shit is easy, jus be clever. "You're cute we should chill" Never works. This did cause it's memorable unlike the 1,000 "Heyyy cutie"s she's already heard.
Somebody who should be posting at MU.
But I dont have anyone to message anyway