WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
seriously - Having a child puts a major strain on any relationship. Even two people who have a lot of good in their relationship can be fractured by throwing a baby in the mix. Kids are great, no doubt... But you should prepare yourself for having to sacrifice things you want to do, and start learning patience if you dont have it already.
honestly it wasnt the kids that killed ours, i believe it was doomed from the get go, i should have listened to my daddy..... or at the very least heeded the warning signs in front of my face. but i did get 4 wonderful daughters out of it so i feel that was the whole reason i was meant to go through it all.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I wasnt saying kids kill relationships... only saying that sometimes they magnify any fissures in the relationship. My comment was more just a general statement than meant to be directed towards you TQ.
i'm just saying a baby is no reason to get married
well it wasnt the baby that made us decide to get married. weve decided that months ago. The baby just kinda happened after we got engaged and actually started planning a wedding. soooooo.....yuuuuuuuup!
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Yeahhh......no.
or so hes told by his aunt...lol