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Anyone got a crazy Stepmom? I need some advice.
I've had this fucked up psyhcotic stepmom since i was around 5. i hate her fucking guts and its her fault. i have a step dad that i love and we get along great, so its not just a step parent thing. i was stuck seeing her everyother weekend when i was little because of the courts and all that shit. she's been nothing but a bitch to me my entire life and its always behind my dads back, when i tell him he doesnt believe me.
8 years ago i turned 18 and havent spent too much time up there at their house, i cant stand going up there. the only problem is i have 12 & 14 year old brothers from the same dad and shes their mom and i love them. i can see myself having a relationship with my broz forever, but i wish i didnt have to deal with that crazy bitch, but my asshole dad said i have to deal with her to see them.
the fucking bitch was just in the psych war 2 weeks ago threatining suicide and all that bull shit shes a fucking mess she was diagnosed with schizophrenia, bi-polar, depression, all that shit, so ive been right all these years, she really is nutz. you know i can deal with her asshole behavior towards me, but to my fiance, the girl i've been with for 10years and going to marry, i cant take that shit. and this summer she was nasty to her (for nooo reason) i didnt talk to the stepmonster for 6 months after that. and i blame my dumbass dad for all this shit cause i've been telling him she was a nutcase fucked up bitch since i was 5, i'm 26 now, i thought when i was an adult this shit would stop, but it didnt. i barely go up there, but i do once in a while to see my bros and she always seems to have a fuckin breakdown/meltdown. its like shes jealous my dad has another son.
i know this shits affecting my brothers, theyre both not doing good in school and getting in trouble and all that good stuff. i only had to see her 2wice a month, they have to deal with her psychosis every damn day. i know i could help them cuz they trust me and i could guide them to make the right choices in life.
my question is how the fuck can i still see my bros without dealing with my dad and stepslut? i wish i could backhand her, but i cant and my dad made it clear if i dont talk/deal/be civil with her, i cant see the kids. (if anyone dealt or is dealing with the same shit, got some advice?)
8 years ago i turned 18 and havent spent too much time up there at their house, i cant stand going up there. the only problem is i have 12 & 14 year old brothers from the same dad and shes their mom and i love them. i can see myself having a relationship with my broz forever, but i wish i didnt have to deal with that crazy bitch, but my asshole dad said i have to deal with her to see them.
the fucking bitch was just in the psych war 2 weeks ago threatining suicide and all that bull shit shes a fucking mess she was diagnosed with schizophrenia, bi-polar, depression, all that shit, so ive been right all these years, she really is nutz. you know i can deal with her asshole behavior towards me, but to my fiance, the girl i've been with for 10years and going to marry, i cant take that shit. and this summer she was nasty to her (for nooo reason) i didnt talk to the stepmonster for 6 months after that. and i blame my dumbass dad for all this shit cause i've been telling him she was a nutcase fucked up bitch since i was 5, i'm 26 now, i thought when i was an adult this shit would stop, but it didnt. i barely go up there, but i do once in a while to see my bros and she always seems to have a fuckin breakdown/meltdown. its like shes jealous my dad has another son.
i know this shits affecting my brothers, theyre both not doing good in school and getting in trouble and all that good stuff. i only had to see her 2wice a month, they have to deal with her psychosis every damn day. i know i could help them cuz they trust me and i could guide them to make the right choices in life.
my question is how the fuck can i still see my bros without dealing with my dad and stepslut? i wish i could backhand her, but i cant and my dad made it clear if i dont talk/deal/be civil with her, i cant see the kids. (if anyone dealt or is dealing with the same shit, got some advice?)
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You could get your brothers a prepaid cell so that you guys can talk without any interference. Try to talk to your Dad without yelling or insulting his wife. Tell him that you want a relationship with your brothers but that the step mom is making it more difficult than it needs to be. If that doesn't work then you may have to get with her program until your bros turn 18. It really sux for a step parent to act like that and sadly alot of them do.
*brofist*