So i have this friend....iv know her since we were kids..she was my first crush in elementary....well anyways we didn't talk for years until this past one where we have talked a little bit here and there (more as of late) But literally every time we talk its like she goes out of her way to hit on me...always telling me im cute and all this....and she is smoking hot....one problem...she got married last year lol ) so i always feel kind of awkward when she does it...like i was thinking she was just being nice but its literally every time we talk so i don't get what she is trying to do...i mean shes married lol....i haven't talked to her much about married life...maybe shes not happy...idk i kinda feel guilty participating but lately iv been returning the playfulness lol....shes to hot not to lol....but she is married and i hate the idea of stepping on the toes of that :-SS
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I wouldn't do that to another dude. Even if I didnt know the dude, just not into fucking things up for someone like that. Think about it this way- What if that was Travis's soon to be ex-wife? You might be like "oh I dont know this dude" but that's hardly an excuse. What if that dude is a decent guy? What if he has no clue his wife is a cheating skank? And if she's going to pull that shit on him now, say she left him for you- you really think that isnt going to happen with you?
I wouldn't do that to another dude. Even if I didnt know the dude, just not into fucking things up for someone like that. Think about it this way- What if that was Travis's soon to be ex-wife? You might be like "oh I dont know this dude" but that's hardly an excuse. What if that dude is a decent guy? What if he has no clue his wife is a cheating skank? And if she's going to pull that shit on him now, say she left him for you- you really think that isnt going to happen with you?
yeah i completely agree....its just hard lol...i like talking to her and it feels nice being complimented...but at the same time it feels really dirty lol....maybe she is just trying to be nice, shes always been like the nicest person i have ever met...its just weird
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
yeah.... I hear you. Getting complements is nice, and probably why she is doing it as well. One of the hardest parts about marriage is keeping the flame alive and not giving up on complementing each other and making the other feel loved. When you are married, it's just so easy to take the other person for granted. I understand it's hard to turn away something that seems so good, but doing the right thing isnt always easy.
I wont think less of you for continuing on with it... However you should take the higher road if you can.
Well im probably going to keep talking to her just because we have been friends for 15 years....but ill just keep ignoring the awkward parts by saying thanks and moving the conversation on
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I wont think less of you for continuing on with it... However you should take the higher road if you can.
Pics or gtfo
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