Can't believe I'm asking for advice on here, but lehgo.
So, this is my situation. I can go to a big party wit my nigga tomorrow, and my Mom isn't being all strict and not letting me or anything, but she's going full blown guilt trip on me, 'cause she'd be home alone come midnight. She's been ignoring me all day and pulling the ridiculously overdramatic okay.jpg face all day long. Basically said "Do whatever the fuck you wanna do, fuck the holidays from now on.". I'm trying everything to compromise and find a middle ground, said I'd at least be wit her most of the day, 'cause I wouldn't be leaving 'til 7:30, and that I can at least take her to a nice dinner before leaving, and I have $70, so it could actually be a decent dinner, but nah, not good enough for her. The thing here is, is that due to my Step-Dad's work schedule, she'd be home alone for New Year's for the next 2 years as well. What, am I 'sposed to stay home wit Mommy on New Year's at fucking 18 and 19 years old too? I also mentioned to her how she's older and I know she has her fair share of New Year's parties under her belt from her younger years, and that I'm in the golden years to go the fuck out and go ham. Not only that, New Year's isn't exactly a family holiday like Christmas and Thanksgiving. It's a day to go out and get trashed, get faded, and get your dick sucked.
So, it's like, I don't know what the fuck to do. If I stay home, Im'ma sit there like a Momma's Boy bitch, feeling like even more of a loner, staying at home simply to "please Mommy.". But then if I go out, Im'ma feel like a dick and have that on my mind, but the positives outweigh that negative IMO.
drinkwine732Posts: 20,418destroyer of motherfuckers
I'd stay home. There are a lot of reasons why, but the most important one is that in many ways, your parents live for you, and that isn't a connection that should be cast aside so simply.
I know what it's like having a massive amount of drugs and alcohol and loose women to go have fun with, but believe me, your Mom means a lot more to you than that.
I'd stay home. There are a lot of reasons why, but the most important one is that in many ways, your parents live for you, and that isn't a connection that should be cast aside so simply.
I know what it's like having a massive amount of drugs and alcohol and loose women to go have fun with, but believe me, your Mom means a lot more to you than that.
She does, but I show that every other day of the year, and even this day by trying to at least compromise and take her to dinner, instead of going "FUCK YOU I DO WHAT I WANT I'M GOING.". Me breaking away from the pack and being independent for ONE day shouldn't prove otherwise.
You'd be surprised how giving your mom one night will mean the world to her. I'm a big advocate on being there for family because they will always be the first line of anything for you.
I get the party factor behind new years, but I dont need a day set aside for me to party. What ill be doing tomorrow I do most weekends with the same people.
drinkwine732Posts: 20,418destroyer of motherfuckers
Yeah, but these are the days she'll remember, and that's all that really matters.
Perhaps you think it's not fair to you, but she's your Mom. She basically gave up what was fair to her for the better part of 16 years or however old you are in order to raise you.
Erik, i think youve already made up your mind by what youve expressed and are just waiting for someone to justify it
Actually, no. I'm legitimately on the fence. It's just that I know which one will make me happy, and which one will leave me depressed wit a ruined holiday, feeling even more like a loner bitch. But hey, Mom'll be happy at least.
I still hang out with my family on New Years Eve, always have. Your mom wants to spend a holiday with you because it's important to her. Yeah, it's a "party" holiday, but there's always gonna be parties. You can sacrifice one "big party" for you mom.
Lol at the full adults comment. I use to think like you believe it or not with less thug of course but you grow and learn realize right from wrong. Stay home show your mom the same appreciation she shows you all year. You could even stay with her and maybe go out after.
You tryin to be a hero fool? You wanna see badass mother fucker?! I'll show ya a badass!!!
I Your mom wants to spend a holiday with you because it's important to her. Yeah, it's a "party" holiday, but there's always gonna be parties. You can sacrifice one "big party" for you mom.
Stay with your mom. I always hang with the family on New Years cause I love them more than a party. You can get shit faced and your dick sucked at anytime at a good party and not just New Years. It will mean the world.to your mom and that's what matters most.
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So, this is my situation. I can go to a big party wit my nigga tomorrow, and my Mom isn't being all strict and not letting me or anything, but she's going full blown guilt trip on me, 'cause she'd be home alone come midnight. She's been ignoring me all day and pulling the ridiculously overdramatic okay.jpg face all day long. Basically said "Do whatever the fuck you wanna do, fuck the holidays from now on.". I'm trying everything to compromise and find a middle ground, said I'd at least be wit her most of the day, 'cause I wouldn't be leaving 'til 7:30, and that I can at least take her to a nice dinner before leaving, and I have $70, so it could actually be a decent dinner, but nah, not good enough for her. The thing here is, is that due to my Step-Dad's work schedule, she'd be home alone for New Year's for the next 2 years as well. What, am I 'sposed to stay home wit Mommy on New Year's at fucking 18 and 19 years old too? I also mentioned to her how she's older and I know she has her fair share of New Year's parties under her belt from her younger years, and that I'm in the golden years to go the fuck out and go ham. Not only that, New Year's isn't exactly a family holiday like Christmas and Thanksgiving. It's a day to go out and get trashed, get faded, and get your dick sucked.
So, it's like, I don't know what the fuck to do. If I stay home, Im'ma sit there like a Momma's Boy bitch, feeling like even more of a loner, staying at home simply to "please Mommy.". But then if I go out, Im'ma feel like a dick and have that on my mind, but the positives outweigh that negative IMO.
What would any of y'all do?
Correction: What would y'all CLOSE TO MY AGE do. The full adults on here are only gonna think like a parent and gimme the same bullshit.
I know what it's like having a massive amount of drugs and alcohol and loose women to go have fun with, but believe me, your Mom means a lot more to you than that.
I get the party factor behind new years, but I dont need a day set aside for me to party. What ill be doing tomorrow I do most weekends with the same people.
Perhaps you think it's not fair to you, but she's your Mom. She basically gave up what was fair to her for the better part of 16 years or however old you are in order to raise you.