WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I have this friend that I have known for years, and she recently had this really dumb argument with a mutual friend of ours. We haven't known the dude for nearly as long and I am not going to get into the debate because it is so stupid, but she was totally wrong. She was being very irrational, and the other dude didnt say anything that should make her flip like she did. Anyways, now she has decided that she wants nothing to do with this other guy. She is making a rift between our group of friends and basically making people choose sides. Keeping in mind that this girl, although she was dead wrong in this dumb argument, is someone that is very special to me and has honestly had a difficult life. (I value her friendship more then the other guy friend, but she is dead wrong and making a mountain out of a mole hole).
What would you do if you were in this situation? I am not asking what you think I should do... I can figure that out myself. What would you personally do if you were in my shoes?
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
I have this friend that I have known for years, and she recently had this really dumb argument with a mutual friend of ours. We haven't known the dude for nearly as long and I am not going to get into the debate because it is so stupid, but she was totally wrong. She was being very irrational, and the other dude didnt say anything that should make her flip like she did. Anyways, now she has decided that she wants nothing to do with this other guy. She is making a rift between our group of friends and basically making people choose sides. Keeping in mind that this girl, although she was dead wrong in this dumb argument, is someone that is very special to me and has honestly had a difficult life. (I value her friendship more then the other guy friend, but she is dead wrong and making a mountain out of a mole hole).
What would you do if you were in this situation? I am not asking what you think I should do... I can figure that out myself. What would you personally do if you were in my shoes?
I would of told her she's wrong and being stupid in the kindest way possible.
yeah. that is what I would do too. I'm not a big fan of walking around on egg shells when someone wants to be ignorant. she wants to throw away a 3 year friendship then that is her prerogative.
WakeOfAshesPosts: 21,665destroyer of motherfuckers
edited May 2011
Well really there are three possible choices here. 1. Take her side because she is a better friend. this is dumb. 2. Let her know that she is being irrational. That you value her friendship, but that she should swallow her pride and stop being such a bitch to this other guy who doesnt deserve it. 3. By quiet and don't take sides publicly.
My guess is most people would do option #3. I think I am one of the few people who would do option #2. I think option #1 is the least likely to be chosen by a male.
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What would you do if you were in this situation? I am not asking what you think I should do... I can figure that out myself. What would you personally do if you were in my shoes?
lol my oldest friend is a gurl...
1. Take her side because she is a better friend. this is dumb.
2. Let her know that she is being irrational. That you value her friendship, but that she should swallow her pride and stop being such a bitch to this other guy who doesnt deserve it.
3. By quiet and don't take sides publicly.
My guess is most people would do option #3. I think I am one of the few people who would do option #2. I think option #1 is the least likely to be chosen by a male.